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Next time you see them say something like, "omigosh i saw a guy jump out your window last week. Did you get robbed?" Be concerned.
I quite honestly would tell! Imagine if it were your wife or husband wouldnt you like to know?
If it has nothing to do with your life, stay well away from it. It could backfire on you. You are neighbours after all. These things have a way of showing themselves eventually.
I would imply but not say it, cowardly yes but tactful considering you live so close... Oh is that your brother that I keep seeing at the house when you're at work, I think I used to work with him... Makes it pretty clear a guy is turning up and if he has questions he'll ask you or her, maybe he knows and is fine, maybe not.
Start house hunting. You will have the neighbour from HELL if she ends up with the house 'mistake' or not!!!
Mind your own business & sit back & wait for the fireworks.
The only time i think neighbours should stick their nose in is when its necessary to phone the police, domestic violence, child/elderly abuse etc
I would not personally. I dont know how 'friendly' you are with your neighbors just yet but I'm sure this news will not be welcome so early with you moving in. You dont know how they will take it and the affect not only on their relationship and but also yours as neighbors. It sounds as though they will get caught sooner or later.
You should just worry about your own back yard, 😀
Get the husbands number And call him to come home as soon as the guy rocks up.
Maybe just say that you need the number of the handy man that she has over so often, in front of both of them. Then you could just say you assumed he was a handyman. I am sure the husband would question her. You could even ask if they are doing renos since he is there everyday etc.
You should mind your own business, for all you know they could have an open relationship.
Hell yes I would. I would be discrete tho maybe a letter like someone else suggested. I would want to know if it was me regardless of how I found out.
I would let her know you feel put in an akward position and that she is not being as discrete as she thinks.
If a stranger came up to you and told you your significant other was cheating, would you believe them? I don't think telling her would do any good. If she was a good friend, yep definitely say something. A complete stranger, no way.