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Put it in her room.
Just get the kids to draw some pictures say wow they r so awesome they're going on the fridge. Cover up the picture and then the next day take it down and they won't even notice. If they do say I have new pics up so the last lot can go in a special memory box now in her room or something then u don't have to look at it
I wouldn’t cope with a photo of my ex on my fridge either!
I agree with the photo frame idea and putting it in her bedroom.
I think that’ll be a win / win.
Good luck x
It may not be that important to her if she doesn’t see Dad anymore and she might be happy for it to come down from the fridge without it going into her room.
Maybe the kids get a similar feeling when they see it on the fridge. Ask your daughter what she wants to do with it. It may be upsetting for her if it’s in her room too.
Maybe say do you want it out to look at or in a keep sake box, give options.
Clean the fridge of everything else as part of 'spring cleaning'. Ask her if she wants to keep it.
Maybe move it to the side.. and If they ask just say ur not sure one of the other kids maybe moved it.. keep moving it there and say it’s tome to put it in their ‘special box’ get a box to put special school things they want to keep, put all these momentos in and keep in wardrobe of each child.
Keep it there. As hard as it is for you, you need to be seen as encouraging any form of interaction with their father - even if it is just a photo.